R E L A T I O N S H I P S

relationships are the talk of the town here

and i can't handle it.

it's just like too much sometimes.

and by sometimes i mean all the time.

you know how earlier i said that walks are a thing here?

yeah walks are basically DTR for one person in the walk.

but let me just tell you some things real quick.

i don't think you should even have to have DTRs.

ever. 

like if you like someone tell them you like them.

if you don't. don't.

easy as that.

if two people like each other they should go on dates

and get to know each other.

then if they do end up liking each other they should go out

and in the middle of all of that 

there shouldn't be any roommate intervention

because that ruins relationships.

if people want to know what's going on with someone

GO TO THEM.

don't ask their roommate

don't ask your roommate to ask them

don't ask your roommate to ask their roommate

ASK THEM.

no one knows what's going on in someone's mind better than them. 

but to straighten things out

basically everyone @ snow college wants the same thing

they want to date around.

see who's cool (and who's not)

what they like in a person (what they don't)

and see all the fun dates you can go on. 

BUT

they want that one person that

they are able to call up whenever they want

and hang out because they know they will and want to

we all want that person that we can 

hold hands

kiss

cuddle

and just chill with

without it being a "makeout buddy"

 or being called a "slut"

yeah we are here to get an education

and get married so we should be wanting 

the second option but we aren't doing that.

everyone is too scared. 

because they have so many crushes

that if they start being "exclusive" with someone

the other crushes will find out and not like them.

and it is driving me nuts

like date someone get to know them 

then ask them out.

cuddling people is fine

holding people's hands is fine.

kissing people (on a less frequent basis) is fine

so everyone just needs to calm down. 

ask people on dates.

have fun. 

THEN figure out your life! 

STOP freaking out about the dumbest things

stop getting in everyones business

and have fun.

this is freaking college!

xoxo jordie